mango monsoon, monsoons and mangoes

summer in Dhaka,
city of my birth

or, more generally, independence. 

the driver (or chauffeur, rather) asked me when i was going to get married. 

because in bangladesh, a woman’s primary purpose is to provide a vessel through which a man can produce spawn. 

ugh. 

i love how sexism can be acceptable under the guise  of “tradition” and “sociocultural values.”  

I never thought of marriage as more worthy of celebration than going to medical school, successfully completing (surviving) my first year, and finding something meaningful to do in life. but i guess here, all of that pales in comparison to finding a mate. 

i get it. we’re biologically programmed to reproduce. fine. 

it’s kind of annoying to realize that mankind will never evolve past a certain point. 

it’s just more obvious here.

11 months ago